Threatened with success…

I apologise in advance for the lack of humour in this post, I will do my best to rectify this in the next post I promise.

I have realised that there is somewhat of a dichotomy in the opinions that people have of where I am. On the one hand I hear that I am a ‘success’ and on the other I am warned that I will end my days as a ‘lonely old man’. I would like to right the natural order and settle this difference, you see these are not the polar opposites that they may seem.

Firstly if I end my days as an old man I will be pretty happy with my lot, indeed I was quite proud that Mr Bill Downer thinks that I have his thirty years in me* As to success, well it is a very subjective measure but I think I am doing ok. The Plough would have been demolished by now if I wasn’t here and instead she is being loved and cared for like only a lonely single old man can 🙂

In truth it is only a woman who can say ‘lonely old man’ in a way that makes it sound bad. In fact it is only an inference, like any good salesman they just make you think that it is bad they don’t actually say it. Being alone allows me to spend all of my time and energy on the wonderful story that is the Plough. The story of the Plough has run for hundreds of years and will, hopefully, run for hundred of years more, I only write my chapter. So my chapter wontt include another name, I am not part of some couple but actually I am more than that. In this instance I am more than the sum of one half.

The thought behind this post, which was inspired by recent conversations, is simply that I understand and am comfortable with what I am. Don’t feel sorry for me because I am not compromising or negotiating with a partner, I choose to be who I am and that enables me to do what I do. Please don’t think that there is such a thing as a threat of being a lonely old man, I can assure you that I know what I am and what I will be and that there is no threat possible. When you tell me that I will be a ‘lonely old man’ you simply expose your own insecurities and, if I may be so bold, your abject inability to function on your own.

Just to be clear this post was prompted only by recent, and innocent, conversations it is not some rant aimed at anyone in particular. It is also worth noting, when you ask where my life is, that I do not have my children at home. Like so many men I lost any interest in a life when I lost the sweethearts that are my children. I was brought up to believe that we are here for our children so without that its just about ticking days off. Sure we do the best that we can do to get through the time that we have but I stopped seeking a life a long time ago.

I hereby promise a return to normality on the next post, sorry.

 

*people are realising that I may just beat that record

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I was meaning to do it – honestly

Having done my chores for the day I thought that it was time for an update from the front, after all some of you don’t get to keep up with it all in person.

As we rush into the last weekend of February Christmas is, at long last, a distant memory and the Summer is approaching whilst my task list remains steadfastly long.

Cutting, splitting, stacking and rotating logs is a never-ending task at this time of year just to keep on top of consumption. The hope is that the Summer will allow me to get on top of this activity at least but I guess the realist in me knows that the Summer tasks will make this a struggle. There is still a mass of painting to do and I am horribly embarrassed that the stain block that I used in preparation for painting some of the ceilings is now over a year old and remains uncovered.

My builder has taken to picking up the small outstanding tasks that he left me rather than just keep nagging me (although I do think that he appreciates that it is not laziness). There is so little usable time in the day that it is quite scary. Gloss paint is a classic example of the publican dilemma in that I can paint gloss only at night, in order to allow it time to dry, so the soonest that I can get the paint out is midnight. Of course the corollary of painting at night is that I am later to sleep and in a worse condition in the morning.

For those who wonder what fills the canyon that is the hours between 07:00 and 11:30 (currently) allow me to share. Firstly there is the routine, orders to be placed, shelves filled, toilets cleaned and replenished. The preparation of the bar itself takes some time with beer mats and drip trays to lay out, seating to replace from last nights clean up and, of course, beer to pull through. The fire also needs cleaning out and rebuilding ready for the day and fuel stores replenished. After some accounting and invoice reconciliation we can get down to the additional task list unless, of course, we have a delivery due and there are at least 3 of those a week.

I would love to say that I have a schedule of additional tasks but sadly it is more a never-ending loop. The pub gets deep cleaned in sections as does the bar and toilets. The office gets vaguely tidied occasionally and I even manage to vacuum upstairs from time to time. Outside cameras need wiping, and floors need sweeping and of course we have to attend to the ashtrays. Whenever possible I try to also target a job from the list, today’s small success was the replacement of two emergency light fittings but within an hour I had replaced the task with a more pressing one to address on a flat roof.

In between all of this I am trying to plan some form of progress. I know that I need more staff for this season and I am regularly in some form of negotiation for fuel, phone, stock or some other service. Then there are the bigger jobs to schedule, the window and wall replacements, roofing issues, gardens and the elephant in the room that is the other bar.

As I have said before, if I look calm just think of the duck furiously paddling beneath the surface. I have always worked at 100 mph but this is something else, so all-consuming that there is not a thought that passes through my mind that does not, in some way, involve the Plough.

The key point remains that I love doing this. I am fiercely proud of the pub and remain privileged to be her custodian but don’t ever think that it is easy. Before writing this today I uncovered my sofa, it has been under a dust sheet since we started the building works in October. Think about that for a moment, my lounge has been empty for nearly 5 months, that is how much down time I get. My reward for this is to keep seeing the little pub grow into the friendly community pub that I knew it could and should be.

In another pub development I have finally, and somewhat reluctantly, declared the pub a child free zone. Having fought long and hard I have to concede that it is just too much trouble to try to regulate families. I am also acutely aware that there is no reason for children to be in an establishment that does not serve food, is not near the beach and has no facilities for children.

I am now considering branching out into medicine, as well as the obligatory counselling, since the swelling and pain are reducing in pinky and he is being cautiously welcomed back into the club. There is a way to go yet but I think I can confidently say that the resultant digit will be no worse than it was before it chose to take a different path to the rest of my hand.

Single groceries and party bathrooms

It is often said, by others, that I have a ‘bad relationship with food’ although I am not sure exactly what that means. Having spent the majority of my adult life working away from home and single I think that it is simply that I have no romantic attachment to food, no love for the task.

For me food is a chore that, by default, brings with it other chores. So eating a meal isn’t the end of it there is all of the preparation and clearing up, in honesty the actual eating of the meal is the shortest part. I rarely feel hungry and can merrily go for days without eating but that said I am pretty healthy so must be doing something right.

I wanted to share with you my shopping experience the other morning because, contrary to popular belief, I think that a lot of you will find something in common with it. To set the scene, so to speak, I should establish that I am a single man with a very small kitchen so on any given day my entire food stock will amount to bread, butter, some baked beans and a bag of pasta. On this particular day I was at work from 11:00 until probably 01:30 which meant that the shopping trip was preparatory towards having dinner ready when I finished.

The day stated well with various ideas of what I could variously put in the oven or the slow cooker and even some back up plans if those ideas didn’t make it to fruition. We have two supermarkets in town and I boldly strode off to the larger of the two, after all if you are going shopping you may as well go large.

My first frustration was met as soon as I got inside the door, no traditional baskets in sight just those monstrous deep things. Not for me the embarrassment of a few measly items languishing so far down the basket that I need a crook to pull them up with, where were the normal baskets? I wasn’t going to let this small issue set me back though, after all I was on a mission, I only needed a few items so I would make do without a basket*

The first thing that I am presented with is fruit and salad so these are readily discounted. I am not adverse to a salad but producing one at 1 o’clock in the morning isn’t happening. Next up is the fresh meat and it is here that we will make big gains. A chicken perhaps? thrown in the slow cooker with some seasoning a full bird will result in succulent fresh chicken for dinner so it looks good. But then there is the hassle, remember its at 1 am, of stripping the carcass, clearing up etc. BBQ shredded beef, again slow cooked to my own recipe, sounded good until I concluded that all I would do with it is put it in a sandwich. What is the point in cooking if what you end up at the end is a sandwich?

Having pretty much discounted all of the meat products for various reasons I hit upon a stunning piece of smoked cod. It was, almost inevitably, a short meeting because the lingering smell of cooked fish has long ago consigned the activity to restaurants only.  Next up was the ‘ready to cook’ style meat products which had been on my mind previously. An oven cooked chicken perhaps or a beef joint? Pre-prepared so just throw it in the oven and they even come in their own tray. The choices of honey glazed ribs or stuffed chicken breast all seemed to either need accompaniments, and their associated hassle, or were more like snacks.

I rapidly passed the ready meals because I refuse to acknowledge publicly that I am only really eating for one. There is something deeply ingrained in me that finds it embarrassing and somewhat offensive to purchase meals for one. Next up was chilled pizza, I don’t mind a pizza on occasion so this could be lucky….. but then there is the fact that if I cook a pizza I will invariably eat more of it than I need to eat and just end up feeling bloated. The challenge of discarding uneaten pizza seemed a step too far so I turned on my heels and left.

I stopped on the way home at the smaller of the supermarkets, although I have no idea why I couldn’t have made the purchase in the store that I had just left, and purchased a loaf of bread. At half past one in the morning I ate dinner, whilst going through some paperwork, yes you guessed it I had a couple of slices of toast.

I don’t believe that I am the only person that has this type of relationship with food, one where the simple act of food shopping can turn me apoplectic and see me returning empty-handed. I am sure that I am not the only person who can cook and then decide it’s too much or too heavy or just can’t be bothered and trash it before moving straight to washing up. So if you recognise anything in this post please let me know that I am not alone.

I will finish this post with an aside that occurred to me the other day after a sudden bout of social media. On this particular day there were no end of posts from mothers lamenting the fact that they don’t even get to use the toilet on their own. On the face of it this seems like a reasonable complaint and one justifiably voiced but is it really? The complaint is that there is no solitude to be found in the bathroom yet women always attend in packs. Girls always go the bathroom together and indeed I watched a lady shepherding her young teen daughters into the ladies with her the other day. So what’s the problem?

 

*In truth I think that this was an early indication of failure

Ploughing ahead

Well hello to those of you who inhabit a normal world and, of course, to those who don’t. I am starting this post on a quiet Wednesday morning on the little island, I still open at 11 am at the moment but it is not uncommon for me to see no customers until long past 12. I feel obligated now to say that I was fully expecting a Winter downturn, and it is better than expected so far, because everybody tries to explain this to me for some reason. When you ask me if I have been busy and I respond “no” that is the end of that conversation, your question has been answered and we are both ready for the next question. Before you launch into an explanation of seasonal trading could I ask you, please, to phrase a further question such as “before you purchased a pub in a tourist economy had you considered the effects of seasonal trade” this will give me the opportunity to tell you that this was fully expected. As you may be able to tell this is not what happens and the person who asks the question launches into an explanation of seasonal trading which leaves me feeling like I had been complaining which is far from the case.

So how is trading during a chilly October in a seasonal town? You know what, it’s not so bad. Its eclectic, unpredictable and therefore impossible to plan for but overall its ok. The fact that I remain here in October and am still following the ‘slow and steady’ path that I set out from the outset seems to be gaining some confidence that I am indeed in this for the long haul. The Plough is slowly emerging from her patchy past and reminding people what a warm and friendly old girl she can be. I remain really impressed by the praise which the pub receives and the warmth and affection that people have for her. It remains a challenge, and a tough one at that, but I am still positive that the old girl can do what she needs to do.

As to full-time pub life, well it is strange but mostly in a good way. I leave the pub at least three times a week for banking and to purchase milk but other than that I am here all of the time. I don’t think people always appreciate just what that means and how quickly it removes any boundaries between work and home life. That said, for me, this is a perk of the job and I love that I pop to the bar at 3 am to get a cold bottle of water, the lack of boundaries is great because it means I live in a huge house but I invite a lot of people around. When you move house you rarely see people who have inhabited your new home before you yet the opposite is true for a pub where everybody has a story to tell and memories of your home, both downstairs and upstairs barely a day goes by without somebody recalling something about the old girl or her ‘character’.

Another oddity is that you engage with so many people yet you know so few. As most of you know I have no support network as such on the island, I have no friends or family to call on and remain a one man operation. The pub means that I meet so many people but the context is always that of a publican meeting public, they are all great people and it is a quick way to get to know people but it is not the same as a traditional support network. Buying a local pub is an easy way to fully immerse yourself in a community, there is no place to hide and you are on ‘display’ from day one but the pressure of that must be similar to the pressure of celebrity. There is never a moment of the day when you are not the publican and as such you are always conscious of what you say and how you are perceived.

To answer the questions that I am always asked. Do I still enjoy it? Hell how could I not?? I spend all day in the pub, it is amazing and not a minute of it is ever hard work. Did I make the right decision? Yes most definitely. I miss the world of heavy engineering a lot, how could I not? I miss the challenges and the friends of course I do but I live in my business and sink or swim this is all on my shoulders. Is it fun? Well yes in a lot of ways it is but the stress is huge and there remain many nights that you can find me sat on the chair in the back bar wondering how in the hell I will make this all work. The sheer volume of work can be overwhelming at times (quite a lot of the time actually) but I am comforted that the pub has been here for 220 + years so I probably don’t need to rush. Am I looking to convert part or all of the building? Hell no, I am nothing if not a sucker for an old pub and this one well and truly has my heart all I will ever do is rebuild and rejuvenate.

For those who are interested it is now 01:15 on Sunday morning which has been the next chance that I got to finish the post!

News from behind the bar

Well guys its been a while! Sorry for the lack of posts I seem to have difficulty aligning free time with functioning faculties at the moment. I get a second wind after trading ends but by that time I am unable to focus properly to write this.

So where are we now? Well this is the end of the weekend that starts my tenth week here at the Plough, where did that time go? The pub remains nearly as determined to succeed as I am to help her, we both have an uphill battle but hey if it was easy everybody would do it wouldn’t they. Local trade is picking up and tourist trade remains complimentary albeit in declining numbers. It is not only the pub herself that has character, the local community is littered with eclectic souls but each one is good-natured and supporting of the old girl in their own, often unique, way.

Notable visits from the big island this period have been Dave and Linda who spent 5 days here and seemed to thoroughly enjoy the hospitality of the old girl. It was great for me to see them enjoy every evening with people who drink in the pub, it shows what a wonderfully friendly environment the old girl creates. A visit from Andy, Geoff and Zoff was brief but nice although I missed the opportunity to cogitate on trade matters with Geoff probably because the Plough is busier than the Ship used to be, maybe next time. This month brings a visit from my good friend Andre, whilst he is only here for one night he gets a special mention for coming all of the way from Montreal to visit the little island.

Other notable mentions of late go to Jo for keeping me vaguely sane in between telling me off and taking the mickey (thanks sis), to Helen for lovely pics of smiles from the big island and to Andrew and Dave for being the sounding blocks I need sometimes.

There remains no staff here and I think it may be some time until there is as we are heading, rapidly, out of season. My working week runs to 130 hours and I am now working day 66 without a break, but its a great job. I don’t use the term ‘little pub’ so much now after a few early hours moments sat in the other bar and being somewhat overwhelmed by the sheer enormity of the building, her history and the responsibility that she brings. The list of jobs is endless and grows at a rate that I couldn’t cope with even if I didn’t have to do the front of house stuff and I am constantly feeling guilty for not giving the property the time and effort she deserves. No of course I don’t eat or sleep properly but those that know me will know that is nothing new.

For those who will, inevitably, wonder I can confirm that I don’t regret the move. The pub is a wonderful pub and people are so complimentary about her and the experience that they have here. Whilst people still say that they can smell paint I can now smell the pervading smell of beer that tells me that the pub is alive. When I say the smell of beer I don’t just mean from where my clothes and skin are soaked in it but I walk behind the bar in the morning after a busy session and it just smells well seasoned. Last night I sat on the sofa in the bar with a bottle of water (yes water) at 1 am and once again pondered both where I am and the sheer enormity of the task ahead of me but I still feel the love for the place and remain immensely proud to hold the keys to the Plough.

This morning I had some calls to make and took the opportunity to take a stroll along the cliff top on an absolutely stunning morning. Looking out over the bay I could have been in any resort in the world, whilst its true that I don’t get to spend so much time out and about at the moment that is the view that explains why this is home.

Shhh its a secret, great parking and working weeks

Wow where did the time go? I am now on day three of week three in the Plough and genuinely don’t have a clue as to where the time went having said that I have no clue what day it is most of the time so I guess it is not such a big surprise. The pub continues to move from strength to strength with the obligatory curved balls such as internal walls randomly filling with water. I couldn’t be more pleased with the performance of the old girl and the support that I am getting from the community, she really is a lovely (and well-loved) old lady.

I have always said that the Plough, like the Ship before her, wants to succeed and its only bad operators and contracts that hold them back. When I left the Ship I had a number of moments when I thought that the success was so influenced by the lovely people who it would be impossible to replicate, I am pleased to report that this is not the case the Plough has attracted its own crowd and they all hold the pub dear.

I remain the only member of staff on the ‘team’ which allows me to spend time with the people who use the pub which is good. My regulars are now starting to challenge some aspects of my life as they realise that there is no time to eat and little time to sleep but when asked if I am bored of doing it all myself yet the answer remains an emphatic “No”. I am frustrated at the slow progress in other areas which results from always being behind the bar but I am still happy to be here. Righty is still arguing about the new regime and is currently deploying vicious lock ups at highly inappropriate times but, as most of you know, I am quite adept at hiding these experiences so all good so far.

The pub is continuing to retain customers, both locals and tourists, both for multiple drinks and over multiple days which is reassuring. One of last weeks tourists, on his last visit, actually sought out the locals at the bar and told them to look after and support “the best landlord I have met” because he and his family had felt so welcome which is pretty impressive feedback. I had probably the worst attempt at trade espionage the other day when somebody came in to scout the pub on behalf of friends in another venue. After trying several of the beers he questioned hours and made some suggestions that bordered on sabotage before the ale got the better of him and he explained why he was here. The dawning realisation that he had just blown his own cover was great to watch as it washed over his face.

For those that have access to any social media and are therefore concerned for my welfare after 3 van loads of police and an ambulance parked outside the pub on Thursday I can tell you to rest easy. The police were attending an incident that was nothing to do with the pub, it was in fact a domestic altercation some way down the street. Much shepherding and careful stewardship ensured that there was no opportunity for interaction between uniforms and young men with full beer glasses, such meetings rarely go well, so I guess it was a small success. Fair play to a number of people for defending the pub against the obvious gossip, we know the Plough is a great pub and always a great atmosphere, just got to keep spreading the word.

The question that I get asked a lot is why I did this and it’s a difficult one to answer. The other day I was on a call with the old job and realised that while they were all in offices, earning wages and being pretty normal I was walking around polishing tables in a sleepy daze. Later that night, well actually early the next morning, I walked through the bar, sticky with beer, locked up and tidied the cellar and the pride I felt for the old girl trading well was all the answer that I needed.

I will leave you with a theory from one of my customers, a roofer who you will doubtless meet if you ever visit, I think it sums up island life quite well. This self-employed guy never works Monday but solves this by paying himself double time on Tuesday, he tends to have Thursdays off as they are the landing strip for the weekend and hell nobody likes working Friday do they? That ladies and gentlemen is why we smile more on the little island, there is no burning ambition to be a millionaire just earn a penny more than you can spend.

The rarest, the bravest and little spiders

Time is really rushing by now, the pub opens at the end of next week and there is still so much to do. I had an overnight visit from Dave and his lad last night the extra labour was a real help but just having friends around and taking some time (only a little) to relax helps even more. It is odd when people visit me now as I am fiercely protective of both my little island and my little pub and desperately want people to love them both. You will notice that a stroll along the cliff is obligatory for all visitors and like a proud new father I will be a pace behind you waiting for you to be stunned. I don’t expect the pub to stun you, any sign of me being stunned is simply because I am punch drunk, but I do want you to like it. The pub is not just a home and business it is very much my baby and when you scatter those few favourable words about you can be certain that I snatch every single one and file it.

After some work yesterday I took a break to walk down the cliff with the lads and then back up to the Crab for dinner, since I never eat out alone this is a rare treat. When Dave tired they went back to the hotel and I returned to work, its pub time that is just how it is. Walking around the bay and down into the old village I was reminded once again what a truly stunning place this is and how lucky I am to be able to live here despite the distance it puts between me and friends. So how is it all going? Well the roofers are mob handed and on target to get the scaffold down by opening, they will go on to do the roofs at the rear during trading. The stonemason thinks he will just make it but had disappeared today to have a baby, well observe the process at least! Baby arrival also put one of my beer installs at risk but I think that is now resolved. Beer survey is tomorrow but install is next Thursday, horribly close to opening but they assure me that it is no risk.

My water softener engineer arrives tomorrow from Reading, oddly water softener engineers don’t occur on the island and we have to import. The water softener service is an unexpected expense but I am assured that it is good for another 20 years and is a very expensive piece of kit so it is a sensible expense. The decoration that remains is to complete one room of the right hand bar (I always label them from behind the bar rather than the street) the front door, window reveals and the gents toilets. In truth there is lots more to do but that is to my eye and not yours. One of the benefits of visiting the Crab last night was to cast an eye over the decoration and recalibrate my aspirations. I still have mountains to do but am hopeful of getting the bar vacated for cleaning by the weekend just have to set a stop on what I am going to achieve before opening. Having the lads here meant the morning kerb crawl from Rich’s boys took all of 10 minutes and I got to wave goodbye to 12 yards of rubbish that has been cluttering the place up although I have to apologise for exposing the big brave men to island spiders and to Jo for having to console her ‘brave soldiers’ when they get home. The opening is definitely happening despite the incredulous looks that I receive when I say this (Thanks Ad for the “oh this month”).

How am I in the midst of all this? Well I am 1 stone down from the pub diet but its a stone that I didn’t need, I am exhausted and very conscious that I am missing lots of details. The cash and time burn is astonishing even for somebody who predicted massive problems and I have taken to never getting out of ‘scruffs’ since I live on a building site there seems little point. I think the best description came from one of the trades who was looking around the pub appreciatively. I asked him if he fancied a pub and without hesitation he answered “No, have you looked in a mirror? we reckon you are on fast forward, you are actually ageing in front of our eyes”. The most important thing though is that I love it, I love my pub, love the island and the people and love the fact that my passion for this place can drive me into 18 hour days continuously now for over three weeks.